Get Ex Back


How to Get Your Ex Back

So it all ended before you realized its worth. And now you want your partner back in your life, and to give it another try. There are of course no hard and fast rules here, and nothing can even come close to predicting the ways of the heart.

But the least we can do is to give you the best chance to win them back. Now, going back to your ex  and telling him or her that he or she still means a lot to you is no mean feat, and you must be saying aloud right now, there is no way I can do that! 

Yes you can!

But probably not in the way you think. In fact, there are definite and proven ways to win back an ex -- but a lot of these you probably haven't heard before.

For example, go right now and  watch this amazing video (click on the link). It's under nine minutes long but packs a wallop of information in there. By the time you finish watching that video, you'll know EXACTLY what to do to start the process of winning back your ex.

 Let's take a look at some other tips.

Winning Back an Ex

It may not be the most fun thing to do, but you might want to ponder over why your relationship failed in the first place. There must have been some concrete reason why it ended if your old flame had really meant so much to you.

Remember that line in the otherwise awful movie Cocktail with Tom Cruise. After he breaks up with his rich girlfriend, she pleads with him not to let it "end badly." "Jesus," he says. "Everything ends badly, otherwise it wouldn't end."

Profound words from Mr. Cruise (who is otherwise pretty much a wacko).

But seriously, you can learn exactly how to win back your ex (click here to see what the surprising first step is), but if you haven't yet addressed the underlying causes of the break up, you'll probably be right back here in another six months, trying to figure out how to win them back again.

Mull over your motive and do not take hasty decisions. What kind of a relationship was it in the first place? Was he or she possessive or abusive (later making up for it with gifts and diamonds) or were you the one smothering your friend with excessive attention?

The first thing that one should learn is moderation coupled with understanding. If both of you, or one of you, lacks the initiative to correct your mistakes, better not go for it. Correct your bad habits if any, especially things that you know turned your ex off.

The silver lining here is that you have known your ex inside-out, and you can play your cards accordingly. You know what color your love likes, what perfume he or she preferred and so on. Why not wear that dress which your partner had once complimented you in, smile and share some old forgotten sunny memory together.

Those are just some obvious basics.

Get Back With an Ex

Finally, let's talk about communication...

Once you start implementing the strategies to get your ex back that you'll find here (click on the link), remember that another important rule here is to listen to your partner whenever he or she talks. Talk to him or her, because you enjoy and cherish those moments of being with him or her. Not because you have to.

Lighten up the atmosphere with some friendly confidential chatter and slip in snippets of what he or she has mentioned. This makes your ex flame realize that you have been paying attention to him or her !

Above all, don't make this all-too-common mistakes and begging, pleading, "drunk dialing," incessant text messaging, etc. etc.

Look, we've all been there, so I'm certainly not going to start judging how you act when you're obviously in pain. But when it takes less than 10 minutes to learn the right things to do (click here to watch the video I'm talking about), there's really no excuse not to do things the right way and succeed!

That's how you get an ex back. By doing what works.

Good luck!